Scripture (KJV) – Proverbs 18:21
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.”
Reflection
Sometimes the greatest damage we cause does not come from our hands. It comes from our mouths.
A few words spoken in anger can remain in someone’s memory for years. Gossip can destroy a reputation. A harsh response can wound someone we love. A careless comment can discourage a person who is already struggling.
But words can also do something beautiful.
They can encourage someone who feels defeated. They can comfort someone who is grieving. They can restore a broken relationship. Most importantly, our words can tell a lost person about Jesus Christ and the salvation He offers.
Solomon tells us, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.”
That should cause us to think before we speak.
We live in a time when people can immediately say whatever comes into their minds. Social media has made it possible to speak to hundreds or thousands of people in seconds. But being able to say something does not mean we should say it.
As Christians, we need to ask ourselves: Do my words sound like they belong to someone who follows Jesus Christ?
It is easy to praise God on Sunday and then use the same mouth to tear someone apart on Monday. It is easy to speak kindly when everything is going our way, but the real test often comes when we are angry, frustrated, offended, or hurt.
Personal conviction begins when we stop saying, “That’s just the way I am,” and allow God to change the way we speak.
Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is simply remain quiet until our heart is right.
And when we do speak, our words should be truthful, gracious, and helpful. That does not mean we never confront sin or speak difficult truths. Jesus spoke truth plainly. But biblical truth never gives us permission to be cruel.
Think about the people closest to you. Your spouse. Your children. Your grandchildren. Your friends. Your church family.
What kind of fruit are your words producing in their lives?
Are you building them up or constantly tearing them down?
Before speaking today, ask yourself: Is it true? Is it necessary? Will it honor Christ?
Once words leave our mouths, we cannot pull them back.
Use your words to give life, speak truth, show love, and point someone toward Jesus Christ.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, forgive me for the times I have spoken without thinking and hurt others with my words. Guard my mouth and help me control my tongue, especially when I am angry, frustrated, or offended. Remove gossip, bitterness, criticism, and cruelty from my speech. Give me words that encourage the discouraged, comfort the hurting, strengthen my family, and honor Jesus Christ. Give me courage to speak the truth when necessary, but always help me speak it with love and grace. Most of all, use my voice to tell others about Jesus and the salvation He offers. May the words of my mouth bring glory to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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